Family Key Success

Bismillaahirrahmaanirrahiim Often we hear people who membangunkarir many years finally sunk by the behavior of his family. There is glorified in his office but covered with disgrace by his own children, there is a brilliant career at the company but eventually faded by the behavior of his wife and son. There is also a popular but not popular among the people in front of his family. There is a respected and revered by the children in his neighborhood but his own wife even scorned, so we need to set the strategy once the seriousness of the right, in order to achieve success that is really essential. Do not let the success of our fictitious. Feel successful but failed, to feel noble while contemptible, was praised when bad, feel intelligent while stupid, was deceived! The cause of the failure of one of them: * Because she never had time memadaiuntuk correcting himself. Some people are too busy with the office, external affairs of himself as a result he lost a solid foundation.Because people do not mean it makes the family as an essential basis for success. * Some people just take care of the family with the rest of the time, the rest of the mind, the remainingpower, the rest of the attention, the rest of the feelings, the consequences like a time bomb.Although money but poor in many hearts. Although a higher rank but low state of his family.Therefore, if we want to be successful, the absolute very serious for us to establish the family as the base (base), we must make our families become the basis of peace of the soul. Father home from work so tired have to miss his home into an oasis of tranquility. Children come home from school must miss it safe at home. Wife as well. Make our home into an oasis of tranquility, serenity, comfort, so the father, mother and child are both happy and feel at home dirumah.Agar our homes become a source of tranquility, it is necessary to be pursued: # Make our home as a house that was always close to God Almighty, where in it are full of religious activity; prayers, recitations of the Quran and continue to constantly be used to glorify the religion of Allah, with the power of faith, worship and pious deeds are good, then the house is guaranteed to be a source of tranquility. # The whole house father, mother and child must have an agreement to manage thebehavior, so that it can to keep myself from other family members feel safe and not threatened to stay in the house, there must be agreement among family members how the house was not until it becomes a hell. # Our homes should be a "House of Science" Father, Mother and child after leaving the house, then came home with knowledge and experience from the outside, go home in the forum to discuss family; exchange their experiences, exchange knowledge, complement each other so that a synergy of science. When he came out again from the house there was an increase kelimuan, insights and ways of thinking due to the input collected from the outside by all members of the family, cultivated in the house, out of the house is getting full. # The house must be "self cleaning house" because no one is the most correcting ourselves safe without risk unless a member of our family. If we corrected out risk terpermalukan, disgrace tersebarkan but whencorrected by his wife, children and their husbands are blood related, they would be clothes with each other. Therefore, anyone who wants to continue to be qualified, the house must be a house that we agree with each other to clean the whole family. Out a lot of mistakes and shortcomings, go home together to correct each other so that out of the house, we can know our shortcomings without having to hurt and tercorengkarena the correct family. # Our homes have become centers of regeneration so that the Father-Mother for a living, knowledge, experience, insight to give the best to the children so that the quality of our children or anyone else who is our home, whether the child birth, foster child or a person who help out at home, anyone would improve its quality. When we die, then we have given birth generation better. Power, pump time and our minds for generations gave birth to more qualified, later born cadres better leader. This is a household whose responsibilities are not only the household but on subsequent generations and the environment.